Don’t fight against the current, let it take you — We all have something (maybe two) that we are absolutely fixated on. We don’t ever have to be asked to do it, no one has to motivate us, honestly, no one even has to provide the resources to help us succeed. We will find them ourselves because we’re obsessed. I’ve…

Don’t save them, don’t fix them, and don’t associate either — Your ex wants you to sit there missing her, moping over the breakup. Your coworkers don’t want to see you talking to a cute, young girl who they don’t know much about. Your boss doesn’t want you to realize your true value and stand up for yourself, eventually outgrowing your…

The work that happens right before you establish yourself — I want to feel good all the time. This may not be entirely possible, but I’m sure going to try. I don’t want to feel uncomfortable, feel like I don’t know what to do, feel stuck, feel inadequate, or feel like I have so many things to do that I’m…

No competition — This post may contain affiliate links. Please read the disclaimer for more information. I’ve gotten to a point where I’d rather have my food be simple and clean than have a fun, wide variety that is compromised by crappy ingredients. I used to try to cook really interesting meals. I…

There’s no such thing as free fun — “You have to separate sexuality from humanity.” as Jordan Peterson says. That was his take on hookup culture and how people are able to engage in such a serious act without any investment afterward. I often describe these people as “numb” or “dead inside” to my friends. Well, Dr. Peterson…

You can’t run forever — I had no control. I couldn’t say no. I was an addict. I loved playing Fifa, buying more clothes, watching YouTube videos until my eyes hurt. I loved inaction. I loved thinking about what I should do and imagining myself doing that. That made me feel good and productive. …

Social media is unbelievably misleading. — I’m not sure when this happened, but suddenly, everyone is some kind of a “dating coach.” I’m attributing it to the rapid rise of YouTube and Tik Tok, because it’s easy to create an account and start shaping it around whatever you want to talk about with zero barriers to…

It doesn’t get simpler to follow than this — This post may contain affiliate links. Please read the disclaimer for more information. Testosterone production has always been of paramount importance. Perhaps, it wasn’t as acknowledged before because there wasn’t such an issue with it today. Today, we have a large portion of our young men with alarmingly low testosterone…